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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT???? Posted: 12/4/2011 6:36:12 PM |
| Blueceleste, you totally miss the point. If you don't want to participate in bondage - then DON'T. Whatever works for you. You don't like it. We get that. You don't want to do it. Yup, we get that too. You think it's OK to call people names for liking something that you don't like, but if someone else thinks you're "boring", you get even more defensive. But if you post BS pretending to be an "expert" who has never tried it, and you put down the people who do enjoy it, why are you surprised at receiving a counterattack? |
| shinebrightforever |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT???? Posted: 12/4/2011 8:29:31 PM |
| cuffs and a hard spanking ;) |
| Muchness11 |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT???? Posted: 12/7/2011 6:57:17 PM |
| Boo UK... Thank you so much for sharing this information! I too believe that bondage is just about letting go of your own self control and giving it to someone else. We all are running around in our lives trying to keep all our balls in the air. There are very few times in life when we can release our control and "just be". I think that is why bondage is such an interesting subject. |
| tennisman2388 |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT???? Posted: 12/8/2011 8:50:37 AM |
| I have had past GFs that displayed submissive tendencies to varying degrees.......from an affinity for light BDSM to TPE (total power exchange). These women were universally intelligent, well-educated, successful in their careers and fully in control of their lives. Submission was/is simply an arousal trigger for them ........perhaps programmed deep within their evolutionary DNA, but that's another debate. In any case, their....er....proclivities.....fit nicely with my preference for erotic dominance......devious grin. For those that are so inclined, D/s is a relationship that profoundly connects and alters both parties. |
| no_1_bby |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT???? Posted: 12/9/2011 6:04:09 AM |
Blueceleste, you totally miss the point. If you don't want to participate in bondage - then DON'T. Whatever works for you. You don't like it. We get that. You don't want to do it. Yup, we get that too. You think it's OK to call people names for liking something that you don't like, but if someone else thinks you're "boring", you get even more defensive. But if you post BS pretending to be an "expert" who has never tried it, and you put down the people who do enjoy it, why are you surprised at receiving a counterattack? +1 I'm still trying to figure out how one does bondage online. |
| --Zen-- |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT???? Posted: 12/9/2011 8:15:48 AM |
| I strongly advise against scratching any mosquito bites. I don't know, I don't think it's something you should let yourself get roped into unless you think you're bound to try it at some time or another...just make sure there are no strings attached and you're not tied to that lifestyle. Give yourself a way out if it starts to feel too constricting.... Either way it's not something to get yourself in knots over....let us know what you decide....don't keep us in suspension over this! I've been pondering about puns lately. Perhaps I can get an example |
| verygreeneyez |
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| BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT???? Posted: 12/9/2011 2:29:57 PM |
wtf?!?! no, u r not missing out. i have never done bondage and dont care too yet i had ppl tell me i am missing out. i used to ask them what's in it for me? it would never work cuz im not submissive i told one person submissive is another way of saying slave, a punk ****, or i dont know how to think plz help me. he got mad when i said that i said see it isnt for me. thats just my opinion You don't need to be submissive to be into bondage. You don't need to be Dominant, either. There are those who happily switch between those modes and all modes in-between. Your opinion is not the least bit off-putting to those of us who are knowledgeable on this particular subject. What's off-putting? The fact that you're clueless, yet "expert" on the subject. As for "what's in it for you"? LOL ~ well, that depends on what you're wanting out of it. The glory of alternate options is that you CAN have exactly what you want, need, desire, fantasize about and also you can distance yourself from all that you don't want to participate in. What's in vanilla sex for you??? It's the very same answer. If you don't want to participate in bondage - then DON'T. Whatever works for you. You don't like it. We get that. You don't want to do it. Yup, we get that too. You think it's OK to call people names for liking something that you don't like, but if someone else thinks you're "boring", you get even more defensive. But if you post BS pretending to be an "expert" who has never tried it, and you put down the people who do enjoy it, why are you surprised at receiving a counterattack? +2 qDating Bondage Datingbondage DATING BONDAGE Dating Bondage BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT???? Free Dating, Singles and Personals Bondage z e Dating Bondage lDating Bondage Datingbondage DATING BONDAGE Dating Bondage BONDAGE,AM I MISSING OUT???? Free Dating, Singles and Personals Bondage n u Dating Bondage |